Disclaimer : This blog is being written by a girl who has aggressive mood swings and who speaks her mind and heart out fearlessly!
I am a girl; a girl with a broken heart! Like any other girl, I've been dreaming of a dream wedding since the day I turned 18. Everything from my attire, jewellery, makeup, hairdo, invitation card design, hall decoration, the welcome board, food menu, music, just everything, has been planned, re-planned and modified a zillion times in my head! I've all these so perfectly planned that they flash in front of my eyes in a crystal clear form!
Yet again, like any other ordinary girl, I fell in love with a not so ordinary boy. Here on I learnt everything new! Castes, finances, statuses, politics, what not! Everything that my parents kept me ignorant from has suddenly become a mandatory learning in my life! Prominence of castes and caste systems in India; I can now pen down some great articles on this topic precisely!
Whilst he's still struggling to convince his brother about marrying me, I fail to understand, what this hype is all about! In a generation where gay marriages are legal, why am I still waiting for a nod from a guy, who barely knows me, no, not barely! who doesn't know me at all and hasn't even spoken to me!
With all this drama moving on a full swing in my life, taking an uninvited invitation would be arriving, my birthday, in just another couple of days! Me being the crazy me as always, decided to surprise myself with a surprise birthday party! Being an extremely reserved person and a very confined friends list, I decided to send out messages to all of these important ladies in my life!
While my head and heart are continuously struggling to understand the caste system logic, something more intense strikes my feelings hard. Rock hard I must say, real hard! With all the invitations for my surprise birthday party being sent and with the caste system analysis running constantly in my mind, I forgot to keep myself prepared for the kind of responses that I would be receiving for the invitations which I sent across.
Out of the very few invitations I sent, except for 4 to be precise, everyone else were keen to know when would I be sending a wedding invitation in the place of a birthday invitation and if I ever have plans of getting married at all! While being this rude and insensitive, what people do not wish to realise is that I am a girl facing my own concerns on a daily basis and fighting my own battles for getting married with nobody else to support!
Alas! This society I tell you!
This brings me to the end of the blog, where I sadly announce that my "surprise" Birthday party has been cancelled!
P.S - my birthday is on June 12th. Feel free to wish me only and only if you are not interested to know my wedding date!
I am a girl; a girl with a broken heart! Like any other girl, I've been dreaming of a dream wedding since the day I turned 18. Everything from my attire, jewellery, makeup, hairdo, invitation card design, hall decoration, the welcome board, food menu, music, just everything, has been planned, re-planned and modified a zillion times in my head! I've all these so perfectly planned that they flash in front of my eyes in a crystal clear form!
Yet again, like any other ordinary girl, I fell in love with a not so ordinary boy. Here on I learnt everything new! Castes, finances, statuses, politics, what not! Everything that my parents kept me ignorant from has suddenly become a mandatory learning in my life! Prominence of castes and caste systems in India; I can now pen down some great articles on this topic precisely!
Whilst he's still struggling to convince his brother about marrying me, I fail to understand, what this hype is all about! In a generation where gay marriages are legal, why am I still waiting for a nod from a guy, who barely knows me, no, not barely! who doesn't know me at all and hasn't even spoken to me!
With all this drama moving on a full swing in my life, taking an uninvited invitation would be arriving, my birthday, in just another couple of days! Me being the crazy me as always, decided to surprise myself with a surprise birthday party! Being an extremely reserved person and a very confined friends list, I decided to send out messages to all of these important ladies in my life!
While my head and heart are continuously struggling to understand the caste system logic, something more intense strikes my feelings hard. Rock hard I must say, real hard! With all the invitations for my surprise birthday party being sent and with the caste system analysis running constantly in my mind, I forgot to keep myself prepared for the kind of responses that I would be receiving for the invitations which I sent across.
Out of the very few invitations I sent, except for 4 to be precise, everyone else were keen to know when would I be sending a wedding invitation in the place of a birthday invitation and if I ever have plans of getting married at all! While being this rude and insensitive, what people do not wish to realise is that I am a girl facing my own concerns on a daily basis and fighting my own battles for getting married with nobody else to support!
Alas! This society I tell you!
This brings me to the end of the blog, where I sadly announce that my "surprise" Birthday party has been cancelled!
P.S - my birthday is on June 12th. Feel free to wish me only and only if you are not interested to know my wedding date!
